Looking forward with an occasional backwards glance

My way of living with multiple sclerosis, and a wheelchair, is to hold firmly to my mantra. And that is always to look forward and concentrate on the things I can do and get as much enjoyment out of that as is humanly possible.

But, just once in a while it can do some good to look back, not to mourn the present but to celebrate the major landmarks in your life. So here goes!

1953       Unbelievably, I have a childhood memory while just a few months old. My mum left me in my pram while she went into a shop. How times have changed.

1957       Aged 4, started in my first school. It was while at this school, aged about 8, I decided on a career in journalism.

1964       Aged 11, started in high school.

1968       Broke my ankle in two places in a cycling accident. In plaster for six weeks.

1969       Took examinations, got most but not all needed to be a reporter.

1970       Got my last necessary qualification and started work as a journalist.

19.82. aged 29. Had MS but didn't know it

1982. aged 29. Had MS but didn’t know it.

1975       Met the young woman who would become my first wife. My football (soccer) team reached the prestigious FA Cup Final but lost.

1977       Married for the first time.

1985       Noticed a problem with my left leg, had various tests but no problem identified

1992       Moved from London to North Wales

1994       Joined the staff of a local newspaper group, becoming both sub-editor and Rural Affairs Editor.

1999       Named as ‘Wales Farming Journalist of the Year’ at the Royal Welsh Show.

2002       Diagnosed with multiple sclerosis but was able to continue working.

2006       November the day after my 54th birthday, my mobility had progressed to the state that I had to give up going out to work.

2007       Despite my disability, I managed to visit Canada and visited the Niagara Falls, and my first (and only) baseball game.

2008       Unhappy in my first marriage, I turned to playing an online game.

2009       While playing the game, I met and fell in love with the woman who would become my second wife.

2010       I met Lisa face to face for the first time. If there had been any doubt, it had now gone. We were hopelessly in love.

2011       What a year.  Lisa and I were both divorced from our partners and we then married on a beach in Florida. Two weeks later I had to fly back to the UK alone as Lisa had to wait for her visa.

2012       Lisa got her visa on her birthday, Valentine’s Day and just five weeks later she arrived at Manchester Airport. A big kiss and “Welcome home” and we sped off.

2013       Our first two cruises together, first to the Norwegian Fjords and Arctic Circle and then around the western Mediterranean.

2014       Cruise bug well and truly caught, we went around Hawaii and stopped off in New York City on the way home.

2015       We booked a transatlantic crossing as soon as we got home. A couple of weeks later we decided that we wanted to leave the grey British skies behind us. So, I suggested that we move to Spain. In the end, we left our rented flat in October, sailed aross the atlkantic for eight days, holidayed in the United States for 9 days, flew back to the UK for two nights in hotels and then flew to Spain. And in between all that I started my own blog.

2016       The blog really took off this year and towards the end of May I was asked to write blogs for multiplesclerosisnewstoday.com, and I agreed.

Not a bad life really, despite having MS.

 

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s